IS THIS OUR DREAM LIFE??

Now finally get entered in to a co-operate world , in other words now the time came to be professionals. But is this the life for which we studied for 17-18 years continuosly and always use to take each and every step keeping our career “ i.e Professional Life” in our mind , Is this the life for which we always get lectures from our parents and elder ones that do study , do hard work?
Now if I think about mine school days, I still remembered the day when I get entered in to mine Xth class , my dad said me “ beta do study hard and the percentage of xth only will shape your career, this is the last step of hard work after this life will go smooth” and now the Xth class is cleared by good marks , and got entered in to XIth and our parents started imposing there dreams of IIT on us just due to the comparison in this society and every eve the new story of success is there on mine parents lips “ Mr. Khanna’s son has cleared IIT and now he is in America, Mr. Kataria’s son has cleared NDA and he is now enjoying army life and etc.”, but never tried to ask that what his son wants, and like a good son without arguing we also started preparing for IIT and XIth got completed and got enetered into XIIth again the same dialogue that I heard when I am in Xth “beta do study hard and the percentage of XIIth only will shape your career, this is the last step of hard work after this life will go smooth” , after XIIth then the turn comes of enterance exams, then again the same dialogue, “ beta get qualified in good enterance exam and your career will get settled”, at last got selected in Engg. College and our battle of 4 years for Engg. Degree has being started. First two years of Engg. Just gone in dosti, yaari , masti and study, but as entered into 3rd year we started thinking ourselves as an engg. And start dreaming that when we will get pass from here we will get this much of salary and we will live a royal life with a tag of royal company, (but who knows that when we get passed the time of recession will get start) and at the end of 4th year that is in VIIIth sem the tension of job get started, and if the session comes like this as with us i.e of recession than its like “ sone pe suhaaga”, but what to say and again the stories get started of our parents “ that Mr. khanna son’s got job in infosys and etc. why you are not getting it, you must be not preparing well, “ bas awaragirdi me laga hua hoga” kaun samjhaye unhe” and the lifes goes on and on.

Is this a life for which we study during exam time like a dog?
Is this a life which we use to see in our dreams when we were in
XIIth (sometimes gusse me when someone scold us, and we use to
say let mine days come and let me earn money, then i will do
whatever i want)?
Is this a life for which every kid plan that when i will earn money
i will have this, I will have that?

And at last when we got entered into this life and company use to take work from us like a dog and treat us like a “majdoor” then the word comes from heart “ Hey Bhagwan chote hi aache the”, Really that life was cool when we were in schools and I think school days were every one’s unforgettable part of life.
Now if you were in school and reading this blog then I have few words for you
“ Yaar jitni aish karni hai school days and college life me karlo , baad me to life bekaar ho jaati hai, apne liye time hi nhi milta”.

I KNEW YOU WOULD COME!!!!!

There were two childhood friends who studied together in school and college and even they joined the army together. War broke out and they both were fighting in the same unit. One night they were ambushed. Bullets were flying all over and out of the darkness there came a voice " John, please come here and help me." John immediately recognized that the voice was of his childhood friend, Smith. He asked the captain if he could go. the captain said " No, I can't let you go, I am already short-handed and I can't afford to lose one more person. Besides, the way Smith sounds he is not going to make it". John kept quiet but Again the voice came, "John, please come and help me out ." John, sat quietly because the captain had refused him earlier. Again and again the voice came John couldn't stop himself any longer and told the captain, that "Captain, this is my childhood friend. I have to go and help him." The captain reluctantly let him go there. John crawled through the darkness and dragged Smith back into the trench with him. They found that Smith was already died. Now the captain got angry and shouted at John, " Didn't I tell you he was not going to make it? He is dead, you could have been killed and I could have become short handed. You make a mistake . "John replied, " Captain I did the right thing . When I reached Smith he was still alive and his last words were ' John, I knew you would come."

Conclusion:-
Good relationships are hard to find and once developed should be nurtured.
We are often told: Live your dreams. But you cannot live your dream at the expense of others. People who do so are unscrupulous. We need to make personal sacrifices for our family, friends, those we care about and who depend on us.

IMPOSSIBLE!!!!!

What is impossible? How will we define impossible?Is the definition of Impossible is same for everyone? I think these questions are the most confusing questions about Impossible in our life, because the meaning of Impossible vary individual to individual.
If we ask someone to define Impossible , the only reply which we get is "The thing which is not possible", but is it true the thing which is not possible for us, is also not possible for others.
Today everyone use to have a quote "Nothing is Impossible" on their lips but they always define the thing which they didnt got in their life or didnt succeded in getting it as "Impossible", or try to cover it by anyother quote like " My bad luck is too good and this success is not made for me , I am not the real owner of it" , And just sit a side and start thinking achieving the other success rather than thinking that why they didn't got it.
I knew that it is very difficult to remove a influence of word "Impossible" compeletely from our life but we can try to make its influence less in our life, stop calling the thing "impossible" and try to achieve it till the extent we can try.
I have gone through many books and also taken many persons review on Impossible the most common quote which i came through it is " Nothing is Impossible" & also some says be an optimist and take Impossible as "I m possible" .
I am not ignoring these lines but taking these lines in my way, so what i feel is "Everything is Impossible in this world if you don't try to make it possible".
Before writing this article i am just reading a book and there i found a very good quote and very impressive poem too:
" Start doing what is necessary, then what is possible and suddenly you are doing the possible".


"If you think you are looser, you are.
If you think you don't succeed, you don't!
If you like to win, but think you can't,
It's almost a cinch you won't.
If you think you will fail, you're failed;
For out in the world we find
Success begins with a fellow's will;
It's everything in the state of mind.
Life's struggles don't always go
To the stronger and faster man,
But earlier or later the man who wins
Is the man who believe he can."

A SLICE OF LIFE......................

Today when I sit on a chair and just think that ,what I have done in my life?, the reply i got "nothing different", just lived mine life as others do, like just completed their studies and entered into a job then to a married life, then kids and so on. Now when I get back to mine old memories in mine childhood days, I just use to laugh and feel little soulful.
I remember those days when I am in 5th or 6th grade and Uncle, Aunty visit our house & they ask me " Beta bade hoke kya banoge" the reply comes from my end "Uncle IAS", and they reply good" Beta hausiyar hai " and my parents also feel great after listening those words. But as I grow up, I came to know the meaning of those three words "IAS" , which looks very easy to speakout but difficult to implement.
Thats true its not Impossible but yes it is not so easy too, when anyone tell that i m preparing for UPSC from last 2-3 years but didn't qualified, the reply comes from my mouth that " If I will do preparation for a year , I will definitely get selected in it" in the front of mine parents and relatives and they appreciate me too, But internally I knew it that it is easy to say these words but difficult to implement it, and seriously I am also afraid of preparing for it , as its not easy to crack UPSC exam.
The words comes out from my heart" hey bhagwan IAS banade, itna paisa dede ki kisi cheez ki kami na rahe" and a minute after the most common words come out " jab kismat me ho hatode , to kaise milege pakode; hamari kismat hi bekaar likhi hai bhagwan ne" and start blaming our luck, but never tried to achieve b'coz we all were afraid of taking this risk.
And few lines comes in mind:-

He rest by day
And sleep by night.
He gave up play
and some delight.
Dry books he read,
Never tried to learn.
And bad ahead,
Success to earn.
He plodded on with
Faith and pluck;
And when he failed,
He called it luck.